I know this is already on your list, I just thought it would be nice to have several options how to load the second eye.
1. there is a general tab in the preferences that needs to be set, then RV searches for files with naming conventions set in a txt file
everytime you drop or open footage (sort of a stereomode)
2. you have already loaded footage, just one eye though, via the menu you can click "load second eye" and it searches the footage according to naming conventions given in a text file
all the best